It is Alfred's eldest son Arthur who suggests that the marriage gave John and Alice some concern on religious grounds. Esther had come into the Hopkinson family in 1865 as a 19 year old governess. Alfred was then 14 years old and he quickly fell for Esther – within months John was writing to Alice
Alfred was expressing great approval of Miss Wells to me last night. [1]
One of John and Alice's criteria for applicants for the job was that they should be able to fit in with the family's religious education, and Esther's letter of application was supported by a letter from her 31 year old sister Miss Anne Eliza Wells, a teacher:
Ours is, I may say, hereditarily a congregational family … My uncle Mr Arthur Wells' name is probably familiar to you in connection with many religious and denominational efforts. And my two sisters with myself, have long been members of the Church here. Esther has, of course, been brought up in the same persuasion, but is not yet a member. The Rev C Colemance, our present minister, considers her in a hopeful state of mind; but she has not yet made a public profession. And we should be most thankful to see her admitted into a truly Christian family where impressions which I know she has received would be encouraged and brought forward. [2]
John and Alice were very pleased with the letters from the Wells sisters and offered Esther the post. We don't know how long Esther stayed with them. Her father Henry Wells, a Nottingham solicitor, died aged 61 in October 1869 and she may have been called home that year. By 1870 she was back in Nottingham living with her rich uncle Arthur Wells and returning to Manchester as a guest and friend of Alfred's sister Ellen, seven years her junior and evidently a great admirer.
Esther barely appears in Ellen Ewing's account after her appearance as a governess. As Gerald Hurst says in his Preface,
the Esther Wells whose first appearance in its pages under the date of 1865 presents to later generations what seems a strange contrast with the vivid and dominant personality whom they knew in after years. [3]
But we know that Alfred had fallen deeply in love with her. And Ellen Ewing includes a letter in which Alice wrote to John on 9 March 1872
Alfred proposes to come home by Nottingham, staying a few days. Poor lad. I feel his heart is there. I am sorry for it under the present circumstances [4]
but it isn't clear why Alice was sorry nor what the "present circumstances" were. Possibly Alice is thinking of her struggle to adapt to young John's engagement to Evelyn, as "the Mother's sympathy, confidence and love are no longer needed". Possibly Esther was steadily turning Alfred down. Possibly Alice wasn't convinced that Alfred and Esther were really suited; the marriage was to be an unhappy one. And possibly it was because Esther had by then been confirmed into the Church of England and this development had made them doubt Alice and John's understanding of Esther and whether she was the right wife for Alfred.
Esther's son Arthur – who was devoted to his mother and entirely on her side – gives Esther's side of the story and we have no other. Before her marriage
She came under the influence of a great priest, Canon Hutton of Sneinton, and was confirmed. It was a brave step, and she needed grace and courage then and thereafter, for at the time of her marriage to my father he was strongly anti-Church, and especially bitter against Baptism. His people were Congregationalists or, as they preferred to be called in the old days, Independents. They would have been glad to get my mother back to the denomination in which she had been brought up. But nothing shook her loyalty to the Church, nor her determination to have her children baptized. I expect the battle was fought and won over me, for my six younger brothers and sisters were baptized as a matter of course. [5]
And so on 3 July 1873 Alfred and Esther were married at St. Leodegarius' Church in what was then the village of Basford outside Nottingham. Their grandchildren had a story that John had pressured Esther into marrying Alfred by saying that the lad would take his own life if she didn't agree to marry him. After spending so long in John's (virtual) company, I find this absolutely impossible to believe. I can imagine one of the sisters, perhaps Ellen, would be very keen to emphasise to Esther quite how much Alfred was besotted with her, but I cannot think those serious girls would make so light of the idea of suicide, so grave a sin as it was to them, and also still a crime under English law.
The officiating clergyman at the wedding was Alfred's uncle Revd George Ibberson Tubbs of St Mary's, Reading. Like Esther, he had undergone a conversion.
When I last mentioned George Ibberson Tubbs it was at his wedding to John's sister Ellen in February 1839. He was then a Congregationalist minister in Warminster in Wiltshire. Eight years later he amazed his congregation at the Common Close Chapel by announcing that he was leaving for the Church of England. The Patriot on 13 May 1847 reported that the subscribers of the Common-close Chapel of Warminster had unanimously adopted a resolution expressing their "most unfeigned regret" at the resignation of their "beloved pastor". They deeply deplored
the circumstances which have made it appear to him his imperative duty to sever those bonds which they had fondly hoped would have been long perpetuated
(I can only think that his studies had converted him to the Book of Common Prayer and the necessity for Bishops). They were sending a deputation to wait upon Mr Tubbs "to request him to reconsider". George didn't change his mind.
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| St Mary's, Castle Street, Reading by Stephen Richards |
It had been founded by breakaway Anglican evangelicals and for nearly 40 years had been outside the Church of England, taking its ministers mainly from the Calvinistic churches of the Countess of Huntingdon's Connexion. In 1836 it had been accepted back into the Church of England, but it must always have been close in spirit to the Nonconformist churches – no wonder it was a good home for George Tubbs. The church has come full circle in recent years. In 1994 the Church of England (Continuing) was founded there and it is once more outside the Church of England.
We have no idea what John and his mother and sisters made of George's conversion to Anglicanism, nor whether George's wife Ellen agreed with him, nor how difficult it was for her to adjust to being a vicar's wife in County Tipperary. On the other hand, we can have a pretty good idea of what John and Alice thought when Esther's brother Arthur became a Roman Catholic priest.


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